Monday, December 30, 2024
My dearest and oldest friend, mentor, and second mom passed away today.
I am heartbroken, but also extremely thankful that this beautiful, hilarious, whirlwind of a woman came into my life when I was 10 years old, and took me on the ride of a lifetime.
Over the next 42 years, our relationship shifted from one of motherly guidance, to mentorship, and finally settling into a deep and lasting friendship full of hilarity, shenanigans, and a deep loving respect on both sides.
I could talk to her about my demons, and celebrate my triumphs when I felt I couldn’t share these with anyone else. She was a rock in my life for which I knew I could, and would be forever anchored to. She just had this gravity about her that drew you in. I am truly grateful for her love, generosity, and kindness throughout my life.
My joy and happiness this season will be remembering all the other Christmas’ we had celebrated together, and I became like one of the family. Yes, those are the Christmas memories I will hold onto as I walk through the grieving process during this time of celebration and merrymaking. She would have wanted that.
I love and miss you already Val. Merry Christmas my dearest friend. Love you always, Angie